Ceremoniere (noun): Lat. Master of Ceremonies, the man (usually a cleric) responsible for co-ordinating the different liturgical ceremonies of the Roman rite, both those pertaining to the Mass and those of other liturgical functions.
About the only thing that fits in to me perfectly above is ‘man’. Though passionate about liturgy I have never fulfilled the office, but thurifer was taken… Nor am I a cleric, though there might still be hope.
